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Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve

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Release date: 2005-02-01
Media: Hardcover
Format: Bargain Price
Number of pages: 176
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Author:
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Professional Review:
Come on. Admit it. He may not be that into you, but were you ever really that into him? He was never "the one", but you lowered your standards and dated him in the meantime. Why? For any number of reasons: you were lonely, you were horny, you thought dating him was better than being alone, all your friends are getting married - you name it. And before you knew it, you got hung up on the jerk. Go figure. The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). Now Dr. Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and author of the smash hit She Comes First, explores the battlefield of sex, hook ups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill, simultaneously arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change.

User Reviews:
 Rating 5   Written on July 17, 2006
   Summary: Amazingly well organized!
Before this book, I was the kind of person who didn't like reading, at all. This book was my very first book that I finished reading in the past five years. What made it successful for me to finish reading was that this book was well organized and easy to understand with examples.

This author is not only a professional sex/relationship therapist but also a great writer who studied writing. He knows how to write well to grab your attention and understanding.

I liked how he started and ended each chapter. This book, of course, helped me move on as a better person, raising my standards and self-esteem. It made me understood why I had been stuck with such losers for a long time, and how to change the view point knowing what to be aware of.

I truly appreciate what this book has done for me. I've been strongly recommending this book to my great girl friends who should deserve better men.


 Rating 2   Written on June 28, 2006
   Summary: Completely useless for midlife and above........
Completely useless to women in their 50s or over 45 --- the book appears to be written for college students and 20s+ whose relationships are primarily based on sex and who have a huge reservoir of available mates from which to choose. It's emphasis upon self-respect is fine.... but the author has no understanding of (nor does the address) the realities of the over 50.


 Rating 3   Written on June 26, 2006
   Summary: Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either
This book is mostly about sex, probably because it was written by a sex therapist. It is nothing like "He's Just not that into you" which is more of a how to guide to dating and relationships. This "sex book" is not all that great.

 Rating 5   Written on May 23, 2006
   Summary: Totally Helpful!
I actually picked this book up for a girlfriend of mine whom I have seen go through this cycle of meeting men at bars, sleeping with them, telling me they weren't that great (which was true) and then obsessing and being miserable if they don't call her. She even recognizes that the guys are not right for her and does not know why she obsesses. I have seen so many single girlfriends go through this and I just have not understood it!!! These are smart, attractive, fun women with good jobs and a good life. Why do they act so desperate? The message of this book is to find your integrity and respect yourself - this will empower you to live your life and not define yourself by a relationship you do or do not have. Don't waste your time with men that are not what you want! Focus on you and what you want to do in life. Only then can you really find a healthy, lasting relationship. I am in the midst of a divorce and this book helped me realize that one of they key reasons it did not work is because I was not that in to him to begin with and lowered my standards because I WANTED to get married - EXACTLY as the author describes! I became an emotional contortionist trying to make it work. And even though with my divorce not finalized, I am not yet on the dating treadmill, this book convinced that I don't even want to go there!!! Thank you!!!

 Rating 5   Written on March 18, 2006
   Summary: Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either: Raise Your Standards and Reach for the Love You Deserve
Excellent book..... a must read for every woman... if you read "He's just not that into you"... you must read this one also.. because let's face it... sometimes when you go out with these guys.... you have to be honest... you're not that into him either... so we have to break the cycle and get on with our lives to find the one that is really worth our time and effort.

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Release date2005-02-012006-12-262006-09-052002-10-012005-04-261991-08-01
MediaHardcoverHardcoverPaperbackPaperbackPaperbackMass Market Paperback
FormatBargain Price---Abridged-
Number of pages176208288272304192
Ean-97814169474009780767921961978158062756697814169095389780380713646
Book Isbn-141694740X0767921968158062756014169095320380713640
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