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Surviving an Affair


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Publisher: Revell
Catalog: Book
Release date: 1998-11-01
Media: Hardcover
Number of pages: 224
Ean: 9780800717582
Book Isbn: 0800717589
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Authors:
Willard F.Jr. Harleysee more Books by Willard F.Jr. Harley
Jennifer Harley Chalmerssee more Books by Jennifer Harley Chalmers

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A guide to understanding and surviving every aspect of infidelity--from the beginning of an affair through the restoration of the marriage.

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 Rating 5   Written on January 31, 2002
   Summary: A very helpful book for getting started with recovery.
I found this book shortly after I discovered my husband's affair. What a great book. It really helped us through a dark time and helped my husband extricate himself from his affair. It also helped make it possible for us to begin healing. I do not know if we will manage to stay together, but if we do then this book will really have contributed to the effort. Please look for Dr. Harley's other books as well, as they are also quite good and were helpful to us. Especially his book "His Needs, Her Needs, How to Affair Proof Your Marriage." Sure wish we had found that one sooner.

 Rating 4   Written on July 9, 2001
   Summary: Good, structured approach to surviving an affair
This book offers a structured, detailed, step-wise approach to rebuilding a marriage after an affair. It's discussion of the causes of an affair is not as well-developed as "Affairs" (Brown), but the marriage rebuilding process is very well developed. The authors bat about the term "in love" fairly loosely without really exploring what it means, and their admonition to not dwell on details of the affair but to focus on the present is in conflict with their demand for total openness and honesty. This book will not offer a betrayed spouse much help in understanding that all-important "why?" nor in working through the agonizing pain of betrayal, nor will it really help a betraying spouse closely examine their history and psyche to identify why they had an affair, but it will offer both betrayed and betraying spouses good advice on moving forward.

 Rating 5   Written on May 10, 2001
   Summary: Hope and Help when there was No Hope and No Help
Whether you are male or female, married or divorced, if you or your spouse have been through an affair, this book is a resource that can bring help, healing, hope, and best of all, recovery for your marriage.

Dr. Harley demonstrates practical steps regarding all aspects of an affair: before, during, after, who, what, why, when, where, etc. You'll be amazed at how simple marriage can be after you and your spouse have worked through this material. It is truly life changing.

Don't be in agony any longer. Get this resource and end the suffering today.


 Rating 3   Written on April 25, 2001
   Summary: Some Good Points, Lousy Case Study, Bad Ending
It may be too early in my husband's affair time line to do a fair review of this book, but I still wish I could get my money back. The book has good information about both partners in the marraige who are invovled in an affair, but the case study with the wife having the affair was too bizarre! The poor, cheated on husband should be up for sainthood! The man took crap for almost two years and gave his wife every thing she wanted to make it easy for her. He wasn't allowed to express his anger or even TALK about the affair, just do every thing he could to make her feel "secure". Sorry, the wife made a mistake, a very BIG mistake, and according to this book, she was punished more by her lover (who eventually dumped her) than by her forgiving husband. I believe BOTH partners are to blame for a troubled marriage, but nobody forced her into bed with the other man. After all the pain and trouble of patching up their marriage, the ending is really anticlimatic (pardon the pun). We just hear that they stayed together, are severely in dept, and learned how to communicate with each other. Definitely a book to check out at the library, but not buy.

 Rating 4   Written on March 29, 2001
   Summary: Very practical help!
I found this book a year after discovering my husband had an affair. We were well on our way to healing at that time, but I wish I had had this book to help me through the first year. The affair was the most devastating thing that ever happened to me. And the only area of the book I question is the presumed guilt of the innocent spouse. At the time of his affair (and before), I was working extremely hard at the marriage and if anyone had an excuse to have an affair (based on needs) it would have been me!! Regardless though, this book has been a great stimulous to help me HELP HIM see the pitfalls that caused the problems in our marriage and how we can work at avoiding them in the future. I recommend this book to anyone facing the same situation or who has a friend in that situation.

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Release date1998-11-012001-04-012004-02-032002-02-011997-02-141995-06-09
MediaHardcoverHardcoverPaperbackHardcoverPaperbackPaperback
Format-Special Edition----
Number of pages224224448288304274
Ean978080071758297808007178899780743225502978080071807797800609281799780802477484
Book Isbn080071758908007178800743225503080071807000609281740802477488
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