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The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed

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Publisher: St. Martin's Press
Catalog: Book
Release date: 2007-02-06
Media: Hardcover
Number of pages: 240
Ean: 9780312360115
Book Isbn: 0312360118
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Professional Review:
“One of the most admired men in the world of seduction” (The New York Times) teaches average guys how to approach, attract and begin intimate relationships with beautiful women
For every man who always wondered why some guys have all the luck, Mystery, considered by many to be the world’s greatest pickup artist, finally reveals his secrets for finding and forming relationships with some of the world’s most beautiful women. Mystery gained mainstream attention for his role in Neil Strauss’s New York Times bestselling exposé, The Game. Now he has written the definitive handbook on the art of the pickup.
He developed his unique method over years of observing social dynamics and interacting with women in clubs to learn how to overcome the guard shield that many women use to deflect come-ons from "average frustrated chumps."

His tips include:
*Give more attention to her less attractive friend at first, so your target will get jealous and try to win your attention.
*Always approach a target within 3 seconds of noticing her. If a woman senses your hesitation, her perception of your value will be lower.
*Don't be picky. Approach as many groups of people in a bar as you can and entertain them with fun conversation. As you move about the room, positive perception of you will grow. Now it's easy to meet anyone you want.
*Smile. Guys who don't get laid, don't smile.

User Reviews:
 Rating 5   Written on October 25, 2008
   Summary: Making it hard, to say no
_The Mystery Method_ is a must-read not just for guys who want to get laid, but for Christian teens who want to keep themselves pure until marriage (or until a spinster's chaste death, whichever comes first). Neil and "Mystery," and my very good friend, "Lovedrop," here teach lonely guys every trick in the book--and I'm not talking about the Good Book, I'm talking about their own methodically prurient book on How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed. If you don't happen to be a beautiful virgin, no sweat, stay home and read a Harlequin. But if you're a naive cutie, you had better buy and study this tome, and none too soon; otherwise, some loser whom you have just met for the first time (but who knows Bill's method) is likely to have you dropping your knickers faster than hot potatoes.

 Rating 5   Written on October 17, 2008
   Summary: It works!
Along with Get Laid Now! The Man's Guide to Picking Up Women and Casual Sex and The Game, this book has tremendously helped out my technique with women. Sure, it's a little "out there" but it's also very entertaining as well as very informative

 Rating 5   Written on October 9, 2008
   Summary: Complicated, but good
The Mystery Methods still work, you just have to stick with it. Also recommend Secrets of the A Game by Logan Edwards and The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss.

 Rating 3   Written on August 28, 2008
   Summary: Too many people know his methods
Too many people know Mystery's Method, so it is becoming overused. Every girl has now been asked the same dumb questions by guys "Did you see that fight outside?" etc. I just wish there was some new material.


 Rating 4   Written on August 22, 2008
   Summary: Steven Tyler Rockstar Wannabe + Communication Major = Mystery Method Mashup
Erik von Markovik thinks like a Stage Magician. Thus, he has a magician mindset.

He has the skills of leading folks through baby-step commands and body moves to control them.

In doing so, he controls their perception of ongoing at-the-moment experience and gains compliance.

In short, he creates mini-illusions like the Prize Illusion, the You're Getting Somewhere Illusion and the You're Cool Illusion.

By his dress and looks, Erik must have modeled himself after Steven Tyler of Aerosmith, right down to the black fingernail polish and the big floppy top hat.

Built from Group Dynamics and Dominance, the Mystery Method model makes these claims:

[1] Women want to feel secure, always
[2] Women want to feel excited
[3] Women want to know that you can deliver [1],[2]
[4] Women want men to be responsible for all [1],[2]
[5] Women only test contenders, those who could get sex
[6] Women must feel resistance after push testing to feel secure

[7] You must show higher worthiness than all other suitors
[8] You must act disinterested to the woman within a group who you want while showing your higher than others worthiness
[9] You must dominate the experience and all in the group through controlling the frame of reference, temporary beliefs
[10] You must come across as alive, deep, sexual, yet never easy, wimpy or a pushover
[11] You cannot make a woman feel like a slut in front of her peers
[12] You must control time perception of others
[13] You must gain dominance through Compliance Momentum that leads past the Compliance Threshold

In Erik's (or Chris Odom's) own words (from page 101):

"But in the Mystery Method, we approach the group itself. Women tend to be attracted to the highest-value man in their social context...you disarm the friends with stories, humor ... [to] steal the spotlight away from the hottie (the girl you want) ... [and] by negging (cutting down) the target (the girl you want)...Because her friends [now] love you ... you have social proof [status with] her peer group. Her [lowered] self-esteem [from] the negs ... [make her want] more attention from you ... She begins to work for your approval and [seeks] validation [from you]."

Few books are worth trading your time to read them.

This book offers some gems, a 20-something interpretation of university lectures in Group Dynamics and Interpersonal Communication Persuasion. Throw in
a few stage musician methods and you come up with the "Mystery Method."

Like most books, the story does not begin until several chapters ahead and like most books, The Mystery Method suffers from a bad chapter sequence.

Much of what you read from the Optional Chapters reflects social indoctrination that Erik took as a Canadian national. Thus, you can skip such without losing the essence of the method.

Here's a better chapter sequence to get you to the story faster:

Part I -- Foundation (Must Read)
------------------------------------
Rewiring her Attraction Circuitry (3)
A3: Male-to-Female Interest (7)
A2: Female-to-Male Interest (6)

Part II -- Action (Must Read)
------------------------------------

Conversation (8)
Rules and Structure of the Game (4)
A1: Open (5)
Mid-Game and End Game (9)

Part III - Optional Reading
--------------------------------------
Forward by Neil Strauss
Preface
The Mystery Behind Casonova (1)
The Ultimate Purpose of Life (2)
Conclusion
A Bonus Letter from Mystery
Glossary


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Release date2007-02-062005-09-062007-12-182007-01-011996-02-192004-07-01
MediaHardcoverImitation LeatherTurtlebackPaperbackPaperbackPaperback
Number of pages240452352304352256
Ean978031236011597800605547369780061540455978097526402797806881461919780806526027
Book Isbn031236011800605547380061540455097526402806881461980806526025
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